Creating Self Confidence

1 November 2017

Self confidence is that elusive quality we all want. It’s feeling good about ourselves and our abilities, whatever we’re doing. It doesn’t matter if we’re giving a presentation, having an interview, meeting new people, or facing difficult experiences, self confidence gives us the capacity to successfully face up to life’s challenges.

The Benefits of Confidence

Confident people tend to feel happier because they recognise they have more successes. Feeling better about our capabilities helps to energise and motivate us to take action to reach our goals.

Research conducted by Mann et al in 2004 associated self confidence with better health, social lives, successful coping and mental well-being.

Self confidence can ebb and flow throughout our lifetime. We all experience times which knock our confidence and may have to work to rebuild and develop it within ourselves.

Improving Self-Confidence

The good news is that if we are lacking in confidence, there are ways to improve it. When I work with clients who want to increase their confidence, we look at their life as a whole to find what will work for them. We review thoughts and feelings and how these contribute to stress and anxiety.  Once we understand patterns of behaviour, we have the key to making lasting changes.  Using a combination of hypnotherapy, CBT and mindfulness, we work together to make lasting changes.

Here are five ways to improve your self-confidence.

Focus on your posture

It has been shown that confident posture has positive effects on our hormones. Positive posture sends images to the brain, which in turn informs the body how it feels. If you want to feel confident, you need your posture to send that message to your brain.

Simply imagine having sensations of confidence and practice feeling them in your body. Concentrate on feeling your feet on the ground, your spine erect and your body relaxed and open. Remember to smile.

Target your positive qualities

When we lack confidence, we tend to focus on the negative and think poorly about ourselves. Noticing and evaluating our positive qualities helps us to use them more.

To begin recognising your positives, it is important to write them down. It can help to ask, Are there qualities I like about myself? What have I achieved? How many challenges have I overcome? What do others like about me?

Take exercise

Exercise has a powerful effect on confidence. Regular exercise releases endorphins into the body. These interact with the brain to produce a pleasurable state of mind which helps you to see yourself in a more positive way. Doing this frequently will give you more energy and help you to feel motivated to act in ways that build your confidence.

Use your imagination

Your mind is a powerful tool you can use to imagine acting as if you are confident.

Close your eyes and relax your body completely. Stay connected with the sensation of relaxation and imagine going through the day feeling confident. Allow yourself to feel comfortably pleasant whatever you encounter and envision all the good feelings you will have.

Make it a point to treat yourself well every day. Make time to do something nice for yourself everyday. Before you go to bed each night write down how you treated yourself well during the day.

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